It's completely irresponsible for a sportswriter to put words on twitter without context. You'd have to hear the vm, hear the tone, to determine what's going on, and also be told what was going on that particular day. This, I believed from day one. My first thought actually was, did they get into an argument and what preceeded it? I wondered where the vm's were on Ritchie's phone, if there were any. When I was told, no they're not friends, not enemies either, there was no altercation, just a player randomly bullying another guy. The only problem was, none of that was true. It was not random. They were peas and carrots. Close friends on the field and off. And the last line of the vm was not printed, which completely changes the tone of the entire vm. How on earth do you leave that last line off of twitter? The only thing I can think of is there's some sort of agenda against Incognito or the Miami Dolphins organization, to do that.
As far as it being about a girl, that's the last thing in a long list of scenarios I'd consider to be plausible.