At least this game wasn't an embarrassment like last year, at least I don't think so. As I've mentioned in other posts, I think most teams would have come away from that game with the same results the Dolphins did.
The Dolphins were in it until the 4th QTR. There are no moral victories but the Dolphins didn't lose like the Colts, Chiefs, Falcons and Steelers did, those were embarrassments. Two of those teams will still make the playoffs.
The Patriot just found a weakness and exploited it. Can't completely fault Sparano and Nolan for being out-coached by one of the best (probably the best) coaches in the league and at least Daboll came ready to attack. As for the conditioning, a lot of teams were suffering the same problems, it's wasn't just the Dolphins. An oversight by the coaches yes, but it wasn't just Sparano.
The defense will rebound and the offense finally, after years, has a pulse.