We have received word in the past that players have viewed the site, from 1st and 3rd person perspectives:) . We've corresponded with a few relatives. They are very cordial and respectful. If you dig around, you'll find some past threads with journalists that have visited, as mentioned earlier in the thread.
Im actually not surprised that players dont post here, why would they do that and open themselves up to media exposure and constantly have to defend themselves? If they do, they remain anonymous, as they should...im sure there are relatives on here that choose to maintain anonymity. You try not to create more problems for yourself or family that way.
Would we welcome any of the above-mentioned people to post at Finheaven? Absolutely...but are we upset that they dont post or dont reveal their identity? Not at all....we know they lurk, and that's all that matters to us :)
And referring to one of the comments saying that most of the people on here don't know what they are talking about...some of that may be true, but players and coaching staff along with families want to see what fans are saying...if these people don't like a particular journalist and would rather not trust their word in the local rag, wouldn't they want to check out online directly from the fans rather than through a middle-man?