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It hurts to be a fan...

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Months of anticipation go by during the off-season, free agency, trading, drafting, training camps, pre-season.... all lead up to this.

You break out your jersey for week 1, skip church and splurge on jersey's for the rest of your family. You order a giant subway sandwich and have a few friends over who continually tell you that last year's Dolphin team was a fluke. You'll prove them wrong.

As it turns out, we get whipped by Atlanta and our offense is looking bad, real bad. You don't even talk to your wife that night who continually asks how a "game" could mean so much to you. Little does she know the Dolphins made you cry growing up...

You listen to south Florida sports talk all week, even though you live in CA. Mon-Wed is all negative, negative threads, negative articles, just bad. By Thursday you begin to realize its only 1 game, and months of anticipation are stronger than one painful loss. This could still be our year!

You spend all day Monday at work, talking about how Miami was going to take it to Indy and the Colts. Your secretary gets tired of such conversations and you actually leave work a little early as you just can't stand it. You get home, dress your 4 year old son in an old Zach Thomas jersey, and your 6 year old daughter in a dolphins cheerleading outfit.

This is going to be it. We'll bounce back, the critics are wrong. You make your family to do the traditionally war cry as the ball is kicked for a touchback. Before you can sit down, Manning hooks up with Clark for an 80 yard touchdown.

This isn't happening. You've hit a new low. Your kids ask what happen as you pummel the couch cushion. Just when you think things couldn't get any worse, the Wildcat comes back in its original form and it's 7-7. Hope is renewed!

Fast forward to the 4th quarter. The game is tied and its 3rd and 6, we're already in field goal range. Only 4 minutes remain. One more first down and we could really bring the clock down, making it hard on Manning and company. The short passing game to Ginn was working, surely one more was coming... Pennington drops back to pass... no he doesn't, he hands off up the middle for a ONE YARD FREAKIN RUN. We force our kicker to boot a 45 yarder of the infield dirt, also giving Peyton Manning MORE THAN 3 FREAKING MINUTES and ONLY PUTTING HIM DOWN 3 FREAKIN POINTS.

He shreds our defense as you scream throughout the house "WHY CAN'T WE AUDIBLE OUT OF OUR DEFENSE LIKE MANNING DOES HIS OFFENSE??!?!?! HE KNOWS WHAT WE'RE DOING EVERY PLAY!" Your wife begins to get upset and calls her mother. This doesn't help your mood.

It's almost good the Indy scores so quick, we get the ball with enough time and 2 timeouts. For some god-awful reason, Cobbs chooses to take it out of the endzone and gets to the 18. You all know what happens next, we look terrible trying to run some semblance of a 2 minute drill.

We lose again. Your kids have fallen asleep and your wife looks at you, waiting for you to take out the trash. This can't be it. 0-2, after all this waiting... We're supposed to be better.

You can only hope that come Thursday, hope will be renewed once again as we travel to San Diego. This seems to be the story of your life, you've bled aqua and orange for over 20 years and it hurts you to lose so much, that your wife questions whether you love football more than her.

You find yourself listening to an Enigma station on Pandora radio, unable to sleep, not wanting to go to bed while your wife is still awake, and typing on a dolphin fan message board.

It's hard to be a fan sometimes...
 
I still have some hope. We played very good on O. Good enough to win. Remember this before you go to bed. We were a Ted Ginn dropped TD pass or a Dan Carpenter missed FG away from winning this game. Manning is a winner and he beat us bad.

I think we have a chance to beat the Chargers. Fact is, we need to win our next three to even have a chance at making the playoffs. Keep your head up man. We all love our Phins.
 
Great stuff! Thanks I needed that. I agree with everything you said but I make my girlfriend wear the cheerleader outfit.
 
Truely, this was the worst loss I have ever witnessed. At least in 2007 I knew we sucked, and expected a loss every week. It was even kind of a joke to me how bad we sucked. But to see this, a game we dominated in the trenches, running the ball down their throats, converting 3rd downs like no tomorrow, and LOSING, is just terrible. To let Manning just throw wherever he wanted with scrub recievers. Not being able to cover a tight end. Just terrible. WHERE WAS OUR DEFENSE???
 
Months of anticipation go by during the off-season, free agency, trading, drafting, training camps, pre-season.... all lead up to this.

You break out your jersey for week 1, skip church and splurge on jersey's for the rest of your family. You order a giant subway sandwich and have a few friends over who continually tell you that last year's Dolphin team was a fluke. You'll prove them wrong.

As it turns out, we get whipped by Atlanta and our offense is looking bad, real bad. You don't even talk to your wife that night who continually asks how a "game" could mean so much to you. Little does she know the Dolphins made you cry growing up...

You listen to south Florida sports talk all week, even though you live in CA. Mon-Wed is all negative, negative threads, negative articles, just bad. By Thursday you begin to realize its only 1 game, and months of anticipation are stronger than one painful loss. This could still be our year!

You spend all day Monday at work, talking about how Miami was going to take it to Indy and the Colts. Your secretary gets tired of such conversations and you actually leave work a little early as you just can't stand it. You get home, dress your 4 year old son in an old Zach Thomas jersey, and your 6 year old daughter in a dolphins cheerleading outfit.

This is going to be it. We'll bounce back, the critics are wrong. You make your family to do the traditionally war cry as the ball is kicked for a touchback. Before you can sit down, Manning hooks up with Clark for an 80 yard touchdown.

This isn't happening. You've hit a new low. Your kids ask what happen as you pummel the couch cushion. Just when you think things couldn't get any worse, the Wildcat comes back in its original form and it's 7-7. Hope is renewed!

Fast forward to the 4th quarter. The game is tied and its 3rd and 6, we're already in field goal range. Only 4 minutes remain. One more first down and we could really bring the clock down, making it hard on Manning and company. The short passing game to Ginn was working, surely one more was coming... Pennington drops back to pass... no he doesn't, he hands off up the middle for a ONE YARD FREAKIN RUN. We force our kicker to boot a 45 yarder of the infield dirt, also giving Peyton Manning MORE THAN 3 FREAKING MINUTES and ONLY PUTTING HIM DOWN 3 FREAKIN POINTS.

He shreds our defense as you scream throughout the house "WHY CAN'T WE AUDIBLE OUT OF OUR DEFENSE LIKE MANNING DOES HIS OFFENSE??!?!?! HE KNOWS WHAT WE'RE DOING EVERY PLAY!" Your wife begins to get upset and calls her mother. This doesn't help your mood.

It's almost good the Indy scores so quick, we get the ball with enough time and 2 timeouts. For some god-awful reason, Cobbs chooses to take it out of the endzone and gets to the 18. You all know what happens next, we look terrible trying to run some semblance of a 2 minute drill.

We lose again. Your kids have fallen asleep and your wife looks at you, waiting for you to take out the trash. This can't be it. 0-2, after all this waiting... We're supposed to be better.

You can only hope that come Thursday, hope will be renewed once again as we travel to San Diego. This seems to be the story of your life, you've bled aqua and orange for over 20 years and it hurts you to lose so much, that your wife questions whether you love football more than her.

You find yourself listening to an Enigma station on Pandora radio, unable to sleep, not wanting to go to bed while your wife is still awake, and typing on a dolphin fan message board.

It's hard to be a fan sometimes...

Perfect post. I adore you for what you just typed. Kudos my friend, kudos :hi5:
 
perfect post, you've said everything that has been going through my head since we lost. thank you
 
Great post. I couldn't agree more, my wife can't stand the fall because of football season and how I take it serious. It sounds like our wives have a lot in common.

I will be upset till Thursday, at least its somewhat of a short week and like you come Thursday I will get some renewed optimism. After all we were 0-2 last year, the only difference our schedule is twice as hard sigh :(
 
Offense costs MIA week 1
Defense costs MIA week 2
let me guess...Special Teams will cost MIA in week 3?
 
Luckily my wife is now a die hard fan. She understands why I get so emotionally involved in games and knows to give me some space after a tough loss. I think a lot of us feel the way you feel. All we can do is hope for the same kind of effort from our O against San Diego and hopefully our D decides to show up. Such a tough loss, one of the toughest I can remember.
 
It's only game 2 and thankfully none of them were against division opponents. I feel your pain, our defense sucked plain and simple, Peyton just picked us apart with their passing game
 
Yeah I couldn't have said it better. After games like tonight it's tough to get up for work the next day. This loss is going to sting for a while. Hoping for some shakeups and a huge upset in San Diego on Sunday.
 
Offense costs MIA week 1
Defense costs MIA week 2
let me guess...Special Teams will cost MIA in week 3?
I am absolutely terrified of what Darren Sproles is going to do to us next week on returns.

As for the topic at hand, it's during losses like this that I say to myself "well at least I got the Canes and Heat to look forward to" and look at my pictures from the Heat championship parade and other championship paraphernelia. It's the only thing that can cheer me up. This was one of the most soul-crushing losses in years.
 
I am absolutely terrified of what Darren Sproles is going to do to us next week on returns.

As for the topic at hand, it's during losses like this that I say to myself "well at least I got the Canes and Heat to look forward to".

The heat will piss you off a lot too.I know they pissed me off a lot last year as well.
 
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