I'm baffled because I'm trying to figure out where supporters of Mike Sam are somehow doing the wrong thing, going about things the wrong way, imposing their morals on other people, censoring, or being intolerant. Because that's what you're saying is going on.
Yes, his career will always be defined by him coming out, obviously. He is breaking barriers. And no, we wouldn't be talking about him unless he came out. THAT'S what's significant and has social impact.
We're going around in circles, but from your last post I think I understand that what you're feeling is that you resent all this talk about a gay player, you resent the distraction, it's not something you can relate to directly, it doesn't directly benefit you, and you don't want the bs. That's it in a nutshell, and that's fine. But you could have simply said that 2 hours ago and skipped the subterfuge.