My brothers and sisters,
I just received a call at noon today from the adoption agency: They might have found a match for Aileen and myself. There are a lot of question marks associated with this news,
The mother is 38 years old and is 32 weeks pregnant.
Due date is April 26th.
She is of Cuban descent and has had no prenatal care until now.
She was in alcohol rehab two years ago but is clean now.
Father was a one night stand :dday:
Hubby is incarcerated. This is a sticky situation because although he is not the father of the child, he might still have some rights to the child. Legal paperwork needs to be filled out and signed by him.
She fell in love with our profile online and read our complete profile and confirmed that we are the ONLY couple she wants for her child (don't know the sex of the child yet).
She is on anti-depressants (Cymbatta). We talked to a pharmacist we know and he said that as far as anti-depressants go this one is not bad (kind of like (Zoloft). Jeff, (or anyone else) do you know anything about this medication?
We should be getting the background information on her in the next two days and she will be meeting with the agency on Monday where everything will be discussed (legal papers and such). I guess we would meet her next week also.
I need your prayers, well wishes, happy thoughts on this matter and even your advice. This decision will not be an easy one. Needless to say, The Rev is a wreck right now.
One more thing, please don't share beyond this forum . I plan to post this here and at the premie forum. Thanks people. God bless. :wink:
Raul
I just received a call at noon today from the adoption agency: They might have found a match for Aileen and myself. There are a lot of question marks associated with this news,
The mother is 38 years old and is 32 weeks pregnant.
Due date is April 26th.
She is of Cuban descent and has had no prenatal care until now.
She was in alcohol rehab two years ago but is clean now.
Father was a one night stand :dday:
Hubby is incarcerated. This is a sticky situation because although he is not the father of the child, he might still have some rights to the child. Legal paperwork needs to be filled out and signed by him.
She fell in love with our profile online and read our complete profile and confirmed that we are the ONLY couple she wants for her child (don't know the sex of the child yet).
She is on anti-depressants (Cymbatta). We talked to a pharmacist we know and he said that as far as anti-depressants go this one is not bad (kind of like (Zoloft). Jeff, (or anyone else) do you know anything about this medication?
We should be getting the background information on her in the next two days and she will be meeting with the agency on Monday where everything will be discussed (legal papers and such). I guess we would meet her next week also.
I need your prayers, well wishes, happy thoughts on this matter and even your advice. This decision will not be an easy one. Needless to say, The Rev is a wreck right now.
One more thing, please don't share beyond this forum . I plan to post this here and at the premie forum. Thanks people. God bless. :wink:
Raul
