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Losing passion for this team

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The Dolphins always will be my team. I couldn't root for anyone other than them. If they acquired a bunch of guys with DUIs and domestic abuse charges who I couldn't support, I just wouldn't root for anyone in the NFL.

That said, it's getting harder and harder for me to allocate energy to this organization.

It doesn't seem to matter who the GM, coach or quarterback are, it's the same story: Look bad, then look good, get our hopes up and then flame out in embarrassing fashion when things really get meaningful. The offensive line has been a train wreck for how long now? Quarterback ... good lord I don't even want to talk about that.

I have a crummy week at the office, relationship life's on the rocks and I'm fighting with my neighbor because they dump trash on my property when then don't realize I'm outside and can see it, I'd like to at least be able to have a few hours a week to be able to enjoy my team. Even if they don't win, I'd like to be able to think "Heck, we still put a scare into them," or "we made them give everything to beat us," or "we're making positive steps, if we just get position X and position Z next year I bet we make the playoffs.

Instead, this organization just keeps on piling on the negativity and hassles of real life. There's no escape from the irritations of everyday if you're invested in the Dolphins; they just add to the irritations.

I barely watched any of the game today. I watched the first quarter and followed the board and checked back a couple of times but it was like "Why bother? I've watched this rerun before." And I didn't feel bad about it. I set aside my whole afternoon to watch my team and just gave up on them and don't feel angry or that I missed a thing, because, I guess, when you feel you have more interest in the fortunes of the team and the players than the actual team and players do, like, what's the point?

I can see in a couple of years where I won't even set my schedule by when the team plays, where I won't follow the Dolphins on social media or talk to fellow fans about that big win or near loss or who we got in the draft or who we need. I already don't spend money getting team merch, because, again, why should I throw money into backing an organization that doesn't seem to give a rip about making its fans proud to be its fans.

OK, enough venting. Hope you all have a good night and feel better about the direction of this team that I do or, at least, you have better things to throw your attention into.
 
The Dolphins always will be my team. I couldn't root for anyone other than them. If they acquired a bunch of guys with DUIs and domestic abuse charges who I couldn't support, I just wouldn't root for anyone in the NFL.

That said, it's getting harder and harder for me to allocate energy to this organization.

It doesn't seem to matter who the GM, coach or quarterback are, it's the same story: Look bad, then look good, get our hopes up and then flame out in embarrassing fashion when things really get meaningful. The offensive line has been a train wreck for how long now? Quarterback ... good lord I don't even want to talk about that.

I have a crummy week at the office, relationship life's on the rocks and I'm fighting with my neighbor because they dump trash on my property when then don't realize I'm outside and can see it, I'd like to at least be able to have a few hours a week to be able to enjoy my team. Even if they don't win, I'd like to be able to think "Heck, we still put a scare into them," or "we made them give everything to beat us," or "we're making positive steps, if we just get position X and position Z next year I bet we make the playoffs.

Instead, this organization just keeps on piling on the negativity and hassles of real life. There's no escape from the irritations of everyday if you're invested in the Dolphins; they just add to the irritations.

I barely watched any of the game today. I watched the first quarter and followed the board and checked back a couple of times but it was like "Why bother? I've watched this rerun before." And I didn't feel bad about it. I set aside my whole afternoon to watch my team and just gave up on them and don't feel angry or that I missed a thing, because, I guess, when you feel you have more interest in the fortunes of the team and the players than the actual team and players do, like, what's the point?

I can see in a couple of years where I won't even set my schedule by when the team plays, where I won't follow the Dolphins on social media or talk to fellow fans about that big win or near loss or who we got in the draft or who we need. I already don't spend money getting team merch, because, again, why should I throw money into backing an organization that doesn't seem to give a rip about making its fans proud to be its fans.

OK, enough venting. Hope you all have a good night and feel better about the direction of this team that I do or, at least, you have better things to throw your attention into.
Just curious...
How old are you?
Why take sports so seriously?

Caveat: I appreciate your passion and your posts but maybe it isn't worth getting this bothered about the fins.
 
Everything you are feeling is natural when watching something you enjoy. You want it to succeed.

That said, you can not influence it, so try your best not to let it influence you. Its ok to take a break, especially if it allows you to address other issues in your life.

In the end, this is just a game, and one which you aren't able to actually play. Find a new hobby to blow some steam off for a bit. Nothing wrong with that!

Good luck with the relationship and neighbors!
 
Just curious...
How old are you?
Why take sports so seriously?

Caveat: I appreciate your passion and your posts but maybe it isn't worth getting this bothered about the fins.
For a lot of people it’s not something you can really control. It’s like telling someone not to enjoy their favorite food. You can control how you react, not how you feel.
 
Losing is painful at least I have the Braves to look back on even if the Dolphins are more important for me.
 
For a lot of people it’s not something you can really control. It’s like telling someone not to enjoy their favorite food. You can control how you react, not how you feel.
Exactly. For so many of us and any die hard fans it’s not like we can just be like oh darn another wasted season of our life. It sucks. And when a team like Miami has been spinning wheels for two decades it can really get to you. I’m about to be 33 and this team has not changed in my adult life.
 
For a lot of people it’s not something you can really control. It’s like telling someone not to enjoy their favorite food. You can control how you react, not how you feel.
If your favorite food started to make you feel like ****, it'd be totally within your control to not partake in it anymore.

You can control how you react... by removing yourself from the thing that causes you to feel down.
 
Just curious...
How old are you?
Why take sports so seriously?

Caveat: I appreciate your passion and your posts but maybe it isn't worth getting this bothered about the fins.

I'm 54. I don't know, I always thought our sports teams were supposed to be a diversion for us. I mean, we're all here on a message board. Is that taking sports too seriously?
 
If your favorite food started to make you feel like ****, it'd be totally within your control to not partake in it anymore.

You can control how you react... by removing yourself from the thing that causes you to feel down.
Yah that’s what I said, you can control how you react. Personally I haven’t got to the point yet where it causes me enough grief to outweigh my love of the league. But inching closer every year.
 
Felt this way for a while. Rarely post anymore because of it. Typically don't have anything nice to say, so why bother?

This team just doesn't deliver or give you any reason to believe anything will ever change. There's no silver lining.

It will be more of the same with the current ownership. At 110 years old, he's incapable of getting it. The truly horrifying thing is the guy waiting in the wings is most likely worse. If this timeline continues as planned, I have a bad team to look forward to for the rest of my life.

Someone please convince me that I'm wrong.
 
Everything you are feeling is natural when watching something you enjoy. You want it to succeed.

That said, you can not influence it, so try your best not to let it influence you. Its ok to take a break, especially if it allows you to address other issues in your life.

In the end, this is just a game, and one which you aren't able to actually play. Find a new hobby to blow some steam off for a bit. Nothing wrong with that!

Good luck with the relationship and neighbors!

The relationship and the neighbors were just hypotheticals ... yeah, yeah, they were just ... um, stuff people go through ... not me of course ....
 
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