I've been cruising the McMichael posts since this incident and I feel compelled to speak...because I think a lot of assumptions and a lot of bs is being floated around concerning him and this incident. Speaking as anonymously as possible, I want to shed light as best as I can, because I am personally confused as well. He's a great friend of mine, and I can confidently say I know him pretty well. It's true he IS a good person, which is why I find it so hard to separate his "problem" from who I know him to be. But, as a woman, I find it sickening and disturbing that this is the second time that he's been in this situation.
It may be that he has a problem with his behavior when he drinks, but I really don't think that's true. He drinks a LOT and parties a lot. But the only time he has issues is when he's around his wife. His marriage/his wife is the problem. He needs to get counseling concerning his marriage, not concerning his drinking. He's just as pleasant to be around drunk as he is to be around sober.
Randy is one of the most sweetest men I know. He's very animated on the field obviously, but off of it he is pretty laid back and soft-spoken. Whether he has a disrespect for all women is debatable, but he definitely has a problem with his wife. No one deserves to be hit, but they both seem to have a volatile and explosive relationship. From the outside looking in, they probably need to divorce, but I'm sure she's waiting for his new contract (which may be a moot point with his bad press and especially if he doesn't produce this year). She's already covering for him to the police. He's prob been rough with her for a while now.
That's my friend and all, but I'd love to see him get the help he needs. Or to break away from her, who seems to be the root of the problem for whatever reason.