Prayers go up for your son and your family.
As NYjunc said, its all fans man. Team wins all is good, team goes into a funk, especially as long as we have, all hell breaks lose. Fans have not really changed but the way they express their feelings and frustrations have. Its only been a little over 10 years that one could pick up all the college and pro football sites and it had imediate impact as soon as word got around about them. Before that there were a select few sites and lots of emails being passed along.
Before becoming a Miami fan I was a die Hard NY Giants fan, still am in some way. I remember going to Yankee stadium as a kid to watch them. Then they moved to Jersey right close to where I lived. No internet to speak of then in the mid 70s. You could judge the feeling of the fans by how much crap was thrown on the field and how loud the boos were and believe me, the boos were loud at Giants stadium in the 70s.
Even when Sims arrived at QB and they had their run. You think Henne is frustrating ? LMAO. One game Sims was good and two after that he suckked, bad. His defense won their SB for them. Then THEY MOVED IN, THE JETS. It was like a foreign intruder. Really pissssed all Giants fans off but looking back, cannot blame the Hess family for moving. Shea Stadium was built as a part of the 64 Worlds Fair exhibit. The city refused to put any more money into the stadium for football. The stands literally moved on tracks to go from baseball to football. Well, Northeast weather froze those babies up reeeeeeeeeeeeeeal quick. After that, the place turned into a dump, especially for football.
Sorry to ramble but again, the fans of every single team that is not doing good voice strong opinions. Fire the coach, fire the GM, OC DC list goes on and on. Stadium blows, team blows, the world blows but believe me, once the winning starts, it all goes away.
Fans from every team want a Bill Cowher to coach. They want an MVP QB an All Pro Oline and Dline and rest of the team for that matter. I too miss the days sitting in the cold parking lot, tailgating with a dozen buddies and sometimes not even going in the game. Win or lose it was a day out with my son, good food, hell of a lot of laughs and some good beer drinking. Sure we were unhappy when we lost but for the most part ? It all went away the next day. No internet to hammer the keys of sorrow on, no blogs, no phone ins to radio and media. Just you and your fan buddies and like I said, next day all was well and you looked forward to being in the parking lot the next home game.
I miss that part of it, really do. I may proclaim I hate the Jets ( I do, born and bread into me ) their fans ( not really,) most part they are great people. Their are *******s cheering for every team in the NFL. Heck, when I go to the Jets games now we play there I stay with my sister. Her and her whole family are friggin Jets fans. I forgive her for that. Just the same, fans are fans. Things go well, all is beautiful.
You think this is bad ? LOL, go up North East and be a Jets or Giants fan. Crap, when things go south not only do 80 times the amount of people get on the internet, you have the largest media market in the world hammering on you, day after day after day and they make S Florida media and news look like Kindergarten when they hammer players or coaches.
So, just understand, we are all here because we love the game of football and want only the best for our home team. Thats really the jist of all things on the internet.