cdz12250 said:Friend, I had open heart surgery at 53 last year and almost died. I went through all the emotional and logical changes that you go through when you truly believe that you are about to check out. I can't help you stop hurting, but I can give you some idea of how your father felt at the end.
Let me assure you that if your father lived ninety years and he spent his last conscious moment in the arms of his wife, with his children having grown into responsible adults (the way he taught you to be), and no regrets that he was leaving anything unfinished (he was, after all, 90), then even though the unknown might have made him a little bit uneasy, he certainly left us feeling that his long mission in this life had been completed, and that he was going to his well-deserved rest.
It was time for him to go. He had accomplished his mission. God needed his soul for another purpose, which we are promised we will know some day. Where he is now, he's not old, or frail, or sick, or weak. He's the way you remember him. He doesn't need to depend on anyone. And if he wants to, he can watch Grange and Thorpe and Gipp and all the other great ones play, in person, and maybe even throw a few balls with them.
I lost my dad over twenty years ago. Even today, if I listen very hard, I can still hear him. As time heals you, you will begin to hear your father again.
My condolences.
:yeahthat:FinsAreLife said:im very sorry to hear that, im sure i speak for many here when i say that the people at finheaven.com are here for you
Danny said:I haven't been able to post much lately as my dad had been sick for a few months.We almost lost him 2 months ago and again 2 weeks ago.Last nite he left us and he died in my mom's arms.We knew the end was coming but is still so hard.I take some comfort that he's not in pain now.He lived his life the way he wanted to and he'd had been 90 in 2 weeks.My dad was the first person that ever talked to me about football and soccer too for that matter.He was born in Italy but grew up in NY...went to WW2 and got 2 bronze medals with the US army and then later was in the airforce....he was my hero.I still remember asking him when I was a kid who was the QB for the Dolphins and he said"Bob Greese"....I've been a dolphins fan ever since......he wasn't a fan of any particular team but he loved football.He thaught me how to be a good fan win or lose...he always told me not to be on time but rather.."be early"...he thaught me to be responsible for work(I've missed one day of work in the last 6 years(other than the few times this year when I had to be with him)...I'm glad and greatfull that he was and always will be my dad.I guess this is my little tribute to him.Thanks dad was everything you did for me and the good memories.I will always love you.Your son, Danny!!
my dad rules!!!!