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My Take On RI/JM (If Tired Of The Situation Don't Read)

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My general opinion of the whole ordeal is generally pretty well known throughout the board,
and I'm not going to re hash it. I've not read the report, nor do I intend to. Maybe this is just
a bit of a rant, or maybe a slight clarification. You decide.


Charlie Mackenzie: How many people have you brutally murdered?

Harriet Michaels: Well, brutal's a very subjective word. I mean, what's brutal to one person might be totally reasonable to somebody else.

Indeed.

I don't consider Jonothan Martin a man. Because in my opinion he's not. Men step up to a situation, and handle it.
"Guys' don't. Guys stand in the background, watching the world go by and, won't ever lift a finger to take or save
what is theirs. "Bullying" is certainly real. But as with most issues that face society, it can be easially dealt with.

Other OLmen inside the locker room told RI to get ****ed when he came insisting on money.
Know what? RI stopped ****ing with them. Know why? Because they stood up for themselves.
Maybe I'm older school. I was a victim at one point in my life. It wasn't fun, and one day I decided
I wasn't going to tolerate it any more.

Here's my story; I grew up in a rural town in NC. Black kids were constantly shaking me down for money, pretty
much for years. I lived in one of those "Old south" towns where the sides of town were literally divided
by the "Tracks". We called the other side "******town". Well, I was obviously singled out, because
I got constantly ****ed with until my freshman year of HS. I finally turned around one day and said

"No"

The black kid that was shaking me down made a threat about what he'd do to collect, and
I told him to go ahead and try it. He said he'd get his freinds, and I'd find out. Well, just about that
time a fifth year senior (Yes, fifth year senior in HS) named Russell Struck rolled up on my side and
said ; "You bring anyone you want".

Times were pretty racially charged then, but even then, the white kids weren't going to embrace
a weak willed kid. All I had to do was stand up for myself ONE time, and all of a sudden the weight of
the world was off my shoulders. Ever since then I've been of the same philosiphy. I can't TELL you
how or when or why to stand up for yourself, but god damnit, just STAND UP!

You don't have to snitch. That's just wrong unless it's something that is totally contrary to
the code. For me, that would be, say, bringing in a cell phone or stuff for a crook from the outside.
I'd tell on that in a heartbeat. It's not even a question.

For ****s sakes....Just handle your own problems. I had an excuse. I was just a kid. JM is of an
age where other young men his age are L/CPLs, SGTs, and SSGs. They lead other young Soldiers and
Marines and have power over life and death in the face of combat.

He has no excuse.

I find what RI did to that staffer with a golf club FAR more serious than anything he did to
JM. He should have been fired for it at the least. When you pick on someone who can't
help themselves, you are a bully. JM could've helped himself.

He just chose not to.
 
I totally agree that the RI/golf club incident was by far worse than this issue. Yet I don't think I ever heard the media go on tirades about it. Boggles my mind. Everyone wanted to stick up for a grown man getting "bullied" yet nothing was said/done regarding this blatant sexual harassment, at a team event! Even our own management didn't deem it serious enough to merit more than a fine.
 
I totally agree that the RI/golf club incident was by far worse than this issue. Yet I don't think I ever heard the media go on tirades about it. Boggles my mind. Everyone wanted to stick up for a grown man getting "bullied" yet nothing was said/done regarding this blatant sexual harassment, at a team event! Even our own management didn't deem it serious enough to merit more than a fine.

I wonder why that is?
 
Did you read my post?

yeah actually i did read your post, maybe i missed you saying you read it because i'm multitasking, if so i apologize. way to be a d-bag when someone tries to discuss a thread that you started in a message board.
 
yeah actually i did read your post, maybe i missed you saying you read it because i'm multitasking, if so i apologize. way to be a d-bag when someone tries to discuss a thread that you started in a message board.

literally the 2nd sentence
 
yeah actually i did read your post, maybe i missed you saying you read it because i'm multitasking, if so i apologize. way to be a d-bag when someone tries to discuss a thread that you started in a message board.
If you read the first paragraph you'd see the answer to your question.


Now, since you are so attentive, and take everything into consideration before you
post, what is it you'd like to say?
 
literally the 2nd sentence

I was wondering if I'd typed in invisible HTML or something.

I wonder what a poster's credibility is when he asks a question that's already
been answered?

Seriously, if you can't even take the time to read a post, please don't answer.
 
A couple of things. Honest question: Why are you more enticed letting everyone else know your opinion about the JM/RI situation by starting a thread and replying in many other RI/JM rather than reading the report and then giving a more informed opinion about the whole ordeal.

Were you a depressed individual when you took a stand?

Also, not everyone is like you and often times "the way people are" isnt by choice. There are more factors that play into a person's decisions than just sheer will that your OP would suggest.
 
And to be clear of my stance I dont believe anyone is really free of fault in this whole thing. It truly is a mess left of a perfect storm.
 
So John Wayne is not wearing his #71 Jonathan Martin jersey? (You know that it will be a collector's item - Hayden has his).
Actually I don't think that Jonathan Martin is wearing his Jonathan Martin jersey - maybe set to ride off into the sunset...
 
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