I don't speak for anyone else, but I think Hayden believes Joe simply isn't a good coach.
I feel the same way. I would not be upset to see Joe fired, as I think he is doing a poor job as head coach, but I do not feel this whole incident is a reflection on him. I think that based on everything I know -- and Schefter is now confirming Joe was NEVER informed of this stuff -- Joe Philbin is caught in the crossfire and never stood a chance.
But, I think it's fair for fans to still want him fired for his COACHING.
I personally feel every coach deserves a chance to show how they handle adversity. If the 4 game losing streak and this fiasco isn't adversity I don't know what is. How Joe Philbin handles the team through this will tell you a lot about him as a coach.
Now truth be told, he's going to have to make some hard decisions on his staff if he keeps his job. In the past a guy like Tony Sparano couldn't make the tough decision unless he couldn't make an excuse anymore for the coach (Tony Bonomo as ST coach being the big guy). Hell he tried to talk Dan Henning into coming back as OC his final year here, but Henning said he felt it was best to move on. Also, while the Harbaugh saga was unfair to Sparano, he didn't exactly put his best foot forward to prove he deserved to remain head coach