this has been a decent discussion. the negativity toward ricky reminds me of what i went through on various sports teams throughout my life because i have dared to think for myself. i know there has been this talk about saban looking for "wolves" and not "sheep," and it's really funny, because fans are looking for sheep, and high school and college teammates are looking for sheep, and our culture is teaching us to be sheep. "a winner talks like this, a winner wears his pants like this, a winner keeps his quotes consistent, etc..." i think that being a winner (in terms of sports) is based solely on how one conducts himself on the field of play, i.e. don't show weakness to the opponent, play hard on every play, etc. whether a guy remembers every word he says to every member of the press and stays consistent with those words is not too important to me when the guy is a FOOTBALL PLAYER. i wish we paid as much attention to people we should be watching, people with jobs that matter to our actual lives. i wish in vain...
focus on today, or "the now," is something that is sorely lacking in our commercial culture. think about how many advertisements we see in one day. what is the message they're delivering? "you're not going to be happy until you get this product, you're not going to be happy until you look this good, etc..." and think about the basic christian idea of life needing to be redeemed by a savior. i'm not bashing christianity, there are some good points there (most of which are ignored by what passes for christianity these days, e.g. the book of matthew, or pretty much anything christ said or did), but the idea that everything is gonna be just fine LATER is not something to build your life around. it's a good way for leaders to rob their people blind while promising them something down the line. i prefer the eastern philosophies, or those of the ancient greeks, who all teach people to live in the now, good or bad. these are better practical philosophies for treating bad things as just as much a part of life as the good things, so it makes sense that most americans think they're crazy philosophies.