Let me ask you something. Say a guy straight out of law school is so good that he lands a job as an Assistant DA and helps put away some of the worst criminals in his state. Now let's say a woman accuses him of sexually harassing her and instead of seeking help through the proper channels she goes to the media. However the ADA is allowed to continue his work while an investigating is launched. In the end they find no concrete evidence that he harassed her. Fast forward five months and the DA has just won his biggest case and is out partying at a bar. The party gets out of control and a woman at the party says the ADA grouped her and eventually tried to force himself on her. Then the media gets a hold of it and runs wild with the initial story. After all is said and done it turns out she accused the wrong guy. Now put yourself in the DA's shoes. There are two publicized instances of alleged sexual harassment within a year of each other, yet his record in the court room is outstanding. He puts away 100% of the criminals he prosecutes. However you now have a ADA that is tainted in the public eye. What should you do? You really can't have an alleged pervert prosecuting criminals. That just looks bad. You have to discipline the guy. In a case like this, the guy would be axed.
Now apply that to Pouncey. You really think he shouldn't be disciplined? I will admit trading him MAYBE an extreme reaction. Yet at the same time he hasn't shown any signs of maturing. Then you couple that with Philbin's policy of not wanting trouble makers on the team, he really shouldn't be on the team. At the very least he should be fined a significant amount for putting team property in danger. That being Pouncey himself.
Oh and before you say there is a world of difference between an ADA and an NFL football player, there is only one deference. Celebrity. This nation is so ass backwards that they seem to think it is ok for people who get paid absurd amounts of money to provide entertainment for the masses that they are above the law. Anyone else in this situation would have been tossed in a holding cell until they were positive it wasn't you who committed the alleged crime.
First your attempting to compare students going to college for law school to kids going to college for football which is almost night and day. The law school student has to show a superior intelligent or SAT type score to get in and the normal football guy or athlete if he is good enough they will bend the scores. Those same players at the major schools see the rules bent all the time for them and their college teammates in terms of receiving penalties for bad grades, drugs and alcohol along with what I will call inappropriate behavior that the regular student would be penalized. Girls are throwing themselves at these guys all at the same time and the university alumni and staff are patting their athletes on the back reinforcing that their athletes are a bit above the rules.
Throw in a million of dollars the first rounders get paid coming out, youth, reinforcement of their irresponsible behavior at the university level and you really have a toxic situation in the making that few men would handle well. Law students whole different story they are studying the law so they know what to avoid and smart enough to cover it up. So their is really little comparison in the case you made. A normal working joe would be the guy you might want to use as your sample case in the future and he probably would be dismissed from his job the first time after such an incident.
Getting back to Pouncy who is a very immature individual who plays football well. While like you I would love to see more maturity on his part but I can live with it until he does something more criminal than the recreational street drugs and alcohol.
This is a mercenary business and the real personal responsibility went out the window when the lawyers walked through the door to fill their pockets with gold off the athletes backs with what we call free agency today so lets call a spade a spade.