Buddy, your post was fine. No need to be sorry. I'm glad I returned to this thread after not planning to. Lots of good information in this thread. My mom was in her 70s and vulnerable since she had diabetes.
Earlier that year my mom had a diabetic coma. She nearly died and was hospitalized for two months. But mom made a complete recovery, to the point she was playing golf multiple times per week. The doctors and nurses always emphasized how strong she was, more like a woman in her 50s. But she was no match for MRSA. It not only knocked out her kidneys but she was so weak she couldn't walk at all.
After my mom's experience I always make sure to invest 30 seconds and use the hand wipes in the entrance of grocery stores and other establishments. And especially in hospitals. Those dispensers aren't decorations.
It's still numbing to think that my mom died as a result of a broken ankle. I try not to dwell on it but if surfaces from time to time. Besides, the MRSA may have caused my dad's death as well. He was in the room with my mom all day every day for two weeks in the rehab facility where she caught the MRSA. They never catch it immediately. In fact, in my mom's case she had already been designated to return home the following day. The doctors saw something in her charts and blood work and it turned out to be MRSA. One month after my mom's death my dad was diagnosed in the early stages of idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis. He had passed a full battery of tests only a couple of months before my mom's broken ankle. Then all of a sudden there was a spot on his lung. Many doctors heard the story during my dad's health issues. They were basically split regarding whether the MRSA played a role. Idiopathic means unknown cause. None of the doctors ruled out MRSA completely. Roughly half said they thought it was probably coincidental while the other half said that exposure to MRSA is increasingly known to cause problems in previously unknown areas, particularly among the elderly. I read some confirmation on the internet, including lung related. It was so depressing I decided not to investigate further.
The rehab facility was a depressing sight to begin with. Lots of very elderly and very sick patients sitting in wheelchairs in the hallway. It had the feel of more dangerous than needed, or of hospitals themselves. During the hospitalizations of both of my parents many health care professionals emphasized that you're better off spending as little time as possible in those facilities, that patients are generally much safer at home as long as all the mandatory treatments have been taken care of.