Regarding the last part of your post- I'm with ya. I've had it with the 'Dolphins are a mess' narrative. There are worse situations, and yet we never hear anything about any of them it seems. But the media never misses an opportunity to pile on the Fins. It's way beyond annoying at this point.
A good example is the Buffalo Bills, they have been a complete joke and completely irrelevant since the 1999 season. They have made bone headed signings, trades and draft picks also and everytime they seem to ready to turn the corner they take a step back. However, I don't see the same sort of negativity and bashing towards that team that we do with Miami.
While Buffalo had Miami's number head to head this year, chances are the Dolphins will again finish ahead of the Bills in the standings in 2014. They have been the worst team in the division the past 6 years, haven't made the playoffs in 14 years, haven't won a division title in 18 years and have had one winning season in 14 years. The Bills are the definiton of suck.
Where is the hate and bashing for them? I actually see the opposite where people in the media falsely pump them up and even seem to like what they are doing. I always see the media people tweeting #billsmafia as if they are some sort of special club.
Fact is, the Dolphins have been average for awhile, but there are many "trainwreck" teams and teams that truly are a "mess". So many times we have been told the Dolphins are a horrible team or in some cases "the worst" team and yet they prove year after year they are never as bad as the media seems to try and paint every offseason. No the team hasn't been great, but this team is much closer to being a playoff team than a "mess".