Wildbill3 said:
I'm not making light of anything, being a mod is not a popularity contest, it's very difficult to do the job we do, esp. if we had to worry about being fired everytime we did something unpopular. Mods really are police, (and I don't care what your opinion of police is...) sometimes we get to be the nice cop who helps a little kid get her kitty cat out of tree, and other times we have to be ready to put a perp down, if you don't like it, there are plenty of other forums where anarchy rules.
Whats the point in voicing an opinion in the "suggestion forum" to help make this site better for more then just the Mods, if everytime you open your mouth a rude, high an mighty Mod makes a statement such as this
"if you don't like it, there are plenty of other forums where anarchy rules" I don't cause "anarchy" and I don't disrespect and I'm not rude, so why should I be subjected to the same treatment as those that do?? Are Mods and Admin the only ones with the brains to make suggestions are they the only ones that matter here?? Without the members you wouldn't be a Mod!!! I didn't suggest this to give you an excuse to be rude, infact it wasn't suggested to give the Mods another right or excuse to feel as thought they are in the trenches of Iraq, No it was because many times now I'm expereiencing Mods over stepping their boundries to flex their muscle because they feel invincible.
I'll promise you 99% of the time "I" have not said or done anything wrong to draw a rude sarcastic overbearing response or for the Mod to have an excuse to step in force something that wasn't called for that I seem to get, (Like the one in bold above) then if I respond feeling as though I didn't deserve the respons I got, it just gets worse because some Mods feel as though they are untouchable and say what they want simply because they are Mods.....I don't think so.
It seems Mods feel because they are given the power to govern it also gives them the right to be rude and obnoxious, they can stop the members from being rude and obnoxious but the rules don't apply to them. Do you honestly think I writting this because I've had one or two bad experiences?? Please, I have better things to do, however I won't stand ideally bye and let a 19 year old kid talk to me as if they are talking to thier 12 year old brother simply because they are a Mod.
Ya know, I understand there is a lot to do with a site this size. I also understand that some fans get carried away and say and do things that need to be handled. That does not excuse the Mods or give them the right to be rude simply becasue they have a lot to do. Look at it as though you're the consumer in a nice resturant , do you want to be treated rudely or with disrespect because someone else in the resturant made the owner or management mad?? No, so why should we!?!?!? Members like me might not be popular for brining this to light, but what should I do turn my back just because I like the site as a whole and don't want to be ban for trying to make the site good for everyone not just the lucky few that govern?? I think the reponse to this post will be interesting and will either have a positive effest or not we shall see.