(quick note... I Just had an entire book of a response deleted because the system logged me out, I'll try to recreate the better parts of it...)
First things first, I have no allies in the Pofo, I side with no one, and no one sides with me. I say what is on my mind, in a manner that adheres to the rules (well unless blitz is concerned, but I consider him a friend, and we have an understanding, I think) and if someone agrees with me fine, and if they don't, well that's good too, what's the point of debate if everyone agrees with everyone else? Second the PoFo is not a war zone, it is a debate forum, if you want trash talk and to bash other posters, the depths of the sea is just down the hall.
Second, you may percieve me as biased, but then as proven by your recent posts, everyone who isn't with you, must be against you, middle ground need not apply. That's fine too, I can't help how you percieve me or anyone else, the only thing I promise anyone is that I'll ban everyone with equal enthusiasim, provided I think it is warrented. And in your case, at the time I gave you the ban, I felt you had been warned in the past and that a reminder wasn't needed. You don't agree with that line of reasoning, okay, so how do you propose to fix that problem?
Let me point out the things you have done to fix that problem.
Good: report posts that are bashing other posters, or are against TOS. Very good that is all we ask of all of our posters.
Bad: You took several oppurtunties to critisize Moderator(s) in thread, and you were informed more than once where the proper forum for such questioning was. In fact this very thread started with yet another off topic post aimed at critisizing Moderator(s).
As to missing other posts that were of personal attack in nature, the POFO is the third largest forum on Finheaven, think about that. Do you honestly think that working two jobs, caring for a wife, my son, animals, and a little free time to myself away from a computer, that I can participate in every thread, and moderator every post? Be honest, with yourself, and realize the answer is no.
Finally if you feel you were owed an apology, all you had to do was say so, should you have to ask for one? No, but taking the approach you took doesn't exactly encourage anyone to review your case and to take your side.
Regardless, I'm sorry that you didn't recieve a warning prior to your ban, I thought (wrongly) that an in-thread warning would be enough to stop the rancor the night you were banned. I was wrong.
I hope this clears up matters. And one more note, I am far less likely to ban anyone in any thread I participate in, because that is a personal rule of mine, that if I am involved, I won't take action in a thread, unless it is something obvious like a cuss word. And even then, I'll report the post and let another mod take care of it.
Anything else you want to talk about? I sure we can handle it here or via another PM. And yes, sometimes PMs are discussed with other staff, to handle esp. difficult cases, or ones a staff member feels they are too involved with.