GRYPHONK said:Oh give it a rest. Of course it isn't.
But we are talking about a pregnant woman and a Football star who's position makes him very physically fit. Not much of a challenge.
If you want it to be fair why don't you put him up against Karen Mok or Charlene Choi. Then let's see how big of a tough guy he is.
It's not right either way.
Sorry Byroan if you meant this in some other light. It's late and I am tired. But whether it's ok for a woman to do it or not doesn't justify or make anything better or acceptable
Anybody, whether they are big or not has a right to defend themself if they are being hit. That defense has to be appropriate to the threat. Pushing somebody away who is hitting you may or may not be appropriate depending on how hard you do it. None of us were there and as far as I know there was nothing in the police report that indicated the force (ie. she flew across the bathroom or she had injuries). The fact that he was arrested does not, in and of itself, mean he did anything wrong. I used to work in the domestic violence courts in Dade County. On many occassions I have seen arrests were the arrested party did nothing more than grab the arms of the person striking them. Some people bruise easily and this results in visible injuries. The police officer can't always tell whether the bruising was the result of the protective grab or b/c of a blow from the person claiming all they did was grab to protect. So, they arrest. The point is that we don't know what happened. Too many people are jumping to conclusions and calling RM a wife beater. He may or may not be, but making that assumption on the basis of the arrest alone is incredibly naive.