The bullying thing doesn't bother me except when combined with the sheer crap that is on the field. We have lost 4 games where we had a second half lead and blew a large lead in a game we won by the skin of our teeth. The staff's performance is eerily similar to Chad Henne as a QB: inability to continue a positive stretch for 60 minutes, even after dominating an early game, ability to make enough plays when behind to have yourself just lose at the end, ability to blow any lead, inability to put games away when the opportunity is there to end it early.
Wins against Cincinatti, Indy, & Atlanta show that this roster, like many NFL rosters, is talented enough to beat any team in the league (different than saying they are the most talented or even amongst the most talented). The difference in us being that team most weeks and the team that is capable of losing to preseason caliber teams is coaching. There is no way you can tell me that the roster was drastically altered in San Francisco before Harbaugh took over, he just got a better result out of the talent that was there that had been losing games they should have won for years.
We lost a season despite having a 3 game winning streak. We lost all but the first of those next 4 losses because of extremely questionable coaching involving poor play calling and poor game management. There is no support for Philbin here, though I would have loved to be able to say otherwise because he seems like a good person and a person who can bring a lot of good things to a team in a different role.