You and him are giving yourselves way to much credit... It is like since they are gay they will be jumping all over me, for sure.
Come on, most gay people don't go around hunting for people all the time, they don't see men and run to them with a sex crazed urge, most gay people tend to find love amongst people that have the same preference they do. They are not interested in "turning" straight people into gay people, they are interested in having fun and/or having a relationship, and that means that they are interested in being with other gay people.
Heck I have hung out with friends in gay bars, and all you do is say that you are straight. Nothing happens and nothing is wrong. most my friends are from the theater industry, and that means that most of them are gay. They joke around from time to time about me being hot and all that, but would never ever dare try anything, they know I am not interested.
It is no different from being with a girl that does not like you, you are not about to try and **** her if you know that there is no way in hell she is not going to like you.