You know what. I come here to post my opinions, and whether they're considered negative or positive, I try and tell it the way I see it. I've always noticed one thing about this place that I can't stand. The fans. :mad:
So many of you act as if you own this team. You act as if any negative comments towards them, is a direct insult towards you. I have fallen into the same trap as well. I have found it very easy to attack negativity, and now that I look at it, I don't like that. That's not being open-minded, that's being close minded IMO....
I remember when I first joined Finheaven. I remember how hard it was to try and fit in, and be considered an "optimist" {nobody wants to be labled as negative}. It was hell. I was almost at a point where I didn't even want to come here anymore...
These days, even though I've changed my tune quite a bit from negative to positive, I still see alot of the same things occuring within. The majority of the posters here don't play fair IMO. They pick and choose what they like or dislike, and then they put you in a certain catagory of poster. Optimist or Pessimist.
Why can't fans like myself ever be considered a little bit of both???
Aren't we as human beings ever aloud to change our minds??? Or have concerns that were once not worth worrying about???....
Why must we always feel the need to prove someone wrong, or make them feel inferior based on their opinions???....
I think there are quite a few fans here who need to just let fans be fans. Fans are allowed to complain, and show concern. That's what we do because we care, not because we don't want to be fans....
I'm lost right now. I don't know what to think. I know one thing however, I'm concerned. I'm not so sure about the rest of you, but that's not my problem...
PHINZ RULE!!!
