I agree with the OP; all this negativity really saps the joy out of FH and zaps one's energy to make a constructive contribution.
It should come as no surprise that I believe there is a group guilty of much of this, whom we would be better off without! I've forged many relationships over the years with those with whom I both agree and disagree, have paid my dues here long ago and continue to enjoy posting with, that I'm at a point where I could give a flying **** if my criticism generates animosity among those few.
And that dovetails in with one of my issues: many of us have been long-suffering, active posters here for what seems like forever. We have a benign feel for who's gonna be genuinely optimistic and/or pessimistic among those who have also paid their dues!
OTOH, the problem I have is with those new and relatively new posters who think they can come in and demand attention to their negative, doom and gloom OPs from us strangers any time they have a new brainfart.
..... and/or those newbies or infrequent posters (who have been elsewhere for years) who are really Tua, Flores, GM, Ross "one trick ponies" clogging up the threads with their negativity, often injecting such into positive threads.
IMO, if you have nothing positive to add, you should go elsewhere as FH may be the most robust, knowledgeable and bestest fins forum, but there are other choices too!
I have been consistent in this crusade for well over a decade and if anything, have become even more resolute now!
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