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Or so my fiancé says. She has her friend flying in Thursday and she makes all these grand plans for us to go out and do things Sunday without mentioning anything to me. Did she bother to let me know these plans prior Does she know that she is asking me to possibly miss the first start of what may be the future of our franchise ? I don't drink, I don't do drugs, I don't got out and hang with the guys. I watch football. What is up with these women ?
I say this all in jest, but what the hell ? FYI, she rearranged the schedule but is not totally happy. I will regret this later.
For whatever wrong she believes you are for dedicating so much to something you love, she’s wrong for making plans without asking and communicating (isn’t that relationship 101?).
I mean, couldn’t you just easily say that you made grand plans for the weekend too but, like her, just didn’t mention it? I’m guessing that wouldn’t fly so well. So why is it ok in the other direction? Seriously.
One could argue that spending time with visiting friends and doing activities on the weekend isn’t life or the end all, be all either. It’s all about subjective opinion and one’s own values and what they enjoy in life.
Me, personally, I loathe when other’s think their priorities or things they enjoy and value in life somehow trump mine. It’s quite selfish and narcissistic.
Ok. Off my relationship soapbox ......... lol
Luckily, my wife doesn’t pull any of that crap on me. She likes me to be happy.